I just think like this..if he had a new girlfriend that text or phone call would be returned immediately - so it's hard to give the benefit of the doubt...just is.
BUT I do see your point. It does allow you to think more positively about the other.
so what did he do when you first met?
yes, that is how things go in the beginning, especially in the infatuation stage...but then that dies, the feelings go away, and you have to decide, do I want to continue loving this person. Love is a decision, and you have made a decision to love your H is sickness and health, and right now he is sick.
You have way more strength than you know. Do you go to church anywhere? That would be great to get involved in a group of some kind.
would love the change of name too! great idea!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
