You have an opportunity to do something with your W that many on this board do not. Do not worry about why she is going, just know she is going. Everything but what you can control (e.g. YOU) is out of your control.

Enjoy your time there but remove the expectations, questions (why this, why that), and just learn from the experience.

Time and money are just things. It is true that you can't get time back but you do NOT want to look back later in life and question:

- Should we have gone
- Would things be different if we did go
- Why couldn't I sacrafice 2 days and X dollars for my R/M
- What would my kids think if they knew I had this opportunity and didn't take it

The list can go on and on as you well know. Go to Retro without expectations and with an open mind.

Last edited by Kemper; 01/08/10 09:30 PM.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10