I'm just glad you still have faith in me G. I know I have to turn the negative into positive - for ME. I think I'm done sulking it's time to stand up. I miss my old H but if this is the new him I don't want anything to do with him.
I am going to be consistently positive and cordial while holding my respect boundaries.
I'm avoiding anger and resentment like the plague.
we all have faith in you. tell yourself everyday that you can do this. Tell yourself everyday that you love who you are becoming and who you are and what your going to learn from this.
It is SO very true that your H is hurting. and NO, this is NOT who the new H is. this is a result of his hurt and his inability to figure out how to fix it right now. You have a great advantage, and you can help lead him out of the darkness.
Really focus on you while he's gone, and focus on how you can start loving yourself and start enjoying your life. You don't need him to do this, it has to come from you. He is only a compliment to the beautiful you.
what plans do you have for yourself? anything fun?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
