I know you already know this but make sure you don't have any expecations about Retro. Of course it is a good sign that you guys are going but don't over think it.
I can tell by your post that you aren't over thinking it (e.g. cautiously optimistic) but sometimes it is hard not to feel some sort of expectation.
I am new at the moving into separation so you can take or leave what I said. However, I have been following this thread and thought this was a good time to chime in.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10