Just because a communicated boundary pushes a spouse away, doesn't mean it was the wrong thing to do . . . it just means they weren't ready to be faithful.
That is EXACTLY how it felt to me, like she just wasn't willing to offer faithfulness.
She HATES the obligations of our M. She felt trapped by them for years, so I understand her refusal to accept them again. What I don't know is whether she would have rebelled against them regardless of the state of our M, or simply because M requires sacrifice of certain freedoms, and compromise of life decisions.
