Trying to move on

[C-Bart]

Mishka, C-Bart, you guys make good points. I'm very concerned about the rebound relationship -- that the first person I click with I just fall madly for because of my R addiction.

But I want to get out and go places and I'll give dating a shot -- if I find people to date. I'm out of practice in looking and asking.

I want to keep all doors in my life open -- including the one to W however remote that chance is, at least right now.

I'm not concerned about a rebound relationship in my case. More concerned that if I pursue another realationship I will fall back into old "Nice Guy" habits and loose myself again. Not saying you are the same way. I just know my limits.

Let me add that I'm even nervous about getting into a R with my W at this time should the opportunity arise. I can not go back to being the old Bart. He does not exist anymore.