A Choice

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Grow as an INDIVIDUAL who is happy about HIMSELF and by HIMSELF.

I AM. That is what I am doing while I'm waiting.

IT IS ALL ABOUT YOU

I believe that is what got me into my sitch in the first place.

You are NOT suppose to wait? Who told you to wait? Go smack them!

I told me that after talking to someone on this board. I think this person is more in tune with what I was and am feeling... I choose to take their advice and am happy that I have. It is what I want... to wait and give W time to heal and maybe, if possible, reconcile my R/M. I am doing the other things.... Gal'ing, 180's and having fun when I feel the need. But smack them! My choice.... now you got me kickin' my own a$$! jk

Thanks for the input. Much needed.

BTW.. whatever W is or isn't doing. I do not focus on that. There will be time for those issues when the time is right. We are separated and do not see each other and are not talking much. What little talk there is right now, because of boundaries and DB techniques, I do not talk about R or OM, keeping it simple and working on self improvement. When she falls or comes out of her fog, a much better me will be here to guide her home. Thank you!