We have gone through some nasty things also, first it started off with visitations with our D13, courts and such. H did file for a D last January and the last comment that was made about that was that I asked if we could hold off on the D for now since we both still care and think about it for a little while. His response was, don't matter its final next January anyway.
Not a good sign at all, but then we got along on Christmas as far as texting. He goes from one emotion to the next. I don't know if it is the depression that he suffers from or what.