Actually, this may explain the schizophrenic split -- sometimes you came off like a jackass, sometimes you came off like a wise man. (wink)

It's hell to get that self-care and assertiveness calibrated properly, innit?

Kett, too often in bitch mode on that same good and necessary journey .....

"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes.
Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert