my W doesn't regret her affair

[BeingMe]

I see now, why people who can afford it, use private detectives to get further proof of infidelity. Difficult though, when someone is outside the country. Although, a PI would be cheaper there with the rate of exchange (depending on the country). I enquired about using one for another matter in my country of origin and it would've cost me Cdn$7 = 1. So, around $100 for a 700 investigation. Not bad.

Can one use the infidelity in another country as a flight risk when it comes to custody, if not for the purposes of D?

OMG Future, I hope it doesn't come to this, but it seems your WAW is bent on going through with this. One would think she would hesitate after having gone through it before. Just know that you didn't do anything to deserve being betrayed like this. It's not your fault. Yes, you might've been a better H, but we are all imperfect. I bet she could've been a better W, but did you turn to someone else to get your jollies? No! It is just the way she is, it seems. If things aren't going her way, she finds someone else. But, now there are children involved, so she should've tried harder to find a way to improve the M, and one thing would've been to make you see how serious she was before she withdrew her affection.

But, I am in no better sitch, after 5 years trying to make my H see after our so-called reconciliation. I think in his case, he just never regained his love for me, just whiteknuckling for the sake of the children, and I don't want that, and nor would you. It's no way to live.