What's so funny about this is that I have just been ignoring his inconsiderate ways in order to detach from him.....I have been more and more "polite" but busy when interacting with him.
I did read the boundries link and believe it or not I have started setting a couple of boundries in how he speaks to me. I was very clear recently and explained that I would appreciate it if he speaks respectfully to me or I will end the conversation. Surprise-surprise he has started talking better to me.....IT REALLY WORKS!! Sorry, I guess I'm rambling...THOUGHTS ANYONE??
M-44 H-44 D9 S1 M-17 T-20 Bomb-8/09 EA/PA/MLC H moved out 2/4/10
It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.-Roy Disney
