Called my L to make the appt to go over financial information, and come up with proposal for STBXW and her L. If we can decide and agree on everything we can go to pretrial hearing and just git'r'done..
It will be me that has to push this, StBXW has no incentive whatsoever to push for the finish line, with me on the hook for finances currently.
Other than that, not much new to report, watching the snow fall a bit. Wishing things were different, but realize that STBXW would have to be different as well, so don't count on that..
Missed talking to d8 last night as she was in the shower, and typically doesn't call me back after, which is ok. Yeh, it hurts, but she knows I call.
StBXW picked up the phone when I called, and didn't seem happy at all, and I could tell she didn't want to be talking with me. Oh well, I asked her about d8 joining Kung Fu lessons and where she was taking them. StBXW was very suspicious of me asking, and just said in general where she was going. Whatever. I just told STBXW that I was proud of and happy for d8, and couldn't wait to talk to her about it.
StBXW softened up a bit after that, but I let her go as I could tell she wanted off the phone...
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
