Wife wants best of both worlds

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Dwinter,
Why do you let your wife disrespect you? Do you think your going to make her mad if you establish and enforce boundaries? If she does get mad what is she going to do? Leave?

The reason IMHO you were upset is once again your wife steamrolled over one of your boundaries. Its hard to fake happy and you were not happy.

I started reading through you thread and the common thing I see is you trying to play nice and make everything work. When your W needs time away from the kids your available. When she wants to talk about her BF you listen. IS this the relationship you want?