I can totally see why you feel that way. Totally.

Still ... the boys aren't like a car he didn't keep up payments on.....

Bottom line: What do you think would be best for *them*?

I don't know. I can't answer. But it always pains me to think about children feeling rejected by a parent, and here he is wanting to spend time .....

I know you'll make the right decision (whatever that is), and I'm so pleased to hear how strong you've been sounding lately and how you've been taking care of business. Good for you.


"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes.
Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert