Hopes can dangerously lead to expectations, and expectations lead to nothing but problems with these situations.

He made his choices, let him deal with them. Yes it is painful, but do not allow it to tear you up. It is not your pain to endure.

I'm by no means a religous type, but I will say, the serenity prayer is something to live by through this.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11