Originally Posted By: DDogs
Do you think the jealousy angle is good/helpful at this point? Besides other than the pics, w would never be in a position to see us together. Best I could do would be to let w see me getting dressed and going out.

Also, I haven't conclusively proved an OM. Possible not proven.

even if i want to reconcile Should I even care what she thinks?


DDogs ~
If my H would have dated or dangled another prospect in front of me while we were separated, I may not have returned to him. Just something for you to think about. We had a troubled M that we were BOTH responsible for. I told him I wanted more and better from him or I was leaving. Things didn't change - I left. If he would have then dangled dates in front of me, I would have folded up any hope of having more and better from him. I would probably have concluded that rather than improve our M as I asked, he'd elected to ditch it and start over somewhere else.

No secret here that I am not a fan of the jealousy angle to bring a WalkAway back. I don't think it is an approach that has any protein in it. If you get her/him back that way, you still have the same issues to deal with that you had before - and more hurt.

My .02
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Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



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