I think that is good, and that is very interesting about the email to OM long ago. She is trying to hide you from him and visa versa. This is a good path for you. Get him jealous and make him squirm, he will react and bam their done!!! I like it. As long as she is not telling the kids there must be some doubt in her mind, who knows??? Remember to look your best, nice colonge, etc.
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