OK, folks, I have thoughts on this. As I have said on Knitted's previous thread. Knitted scarff is here really to try to find a way to take him back.
If that's what she wants to do, then she should just admit it. We can help her find reasons to do so and encourage her to find the strength to forgive him.
But as long as she insists that she's done, she doesn't and will never trust him, that he's dangerous and she's scared of him, then I will say (for the 6th time, now):
File for divorce and move on with your life. Work on your own feelings and let him deal with his own guilt and pain his way.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
