it seems to me you, scraff, are doing exactly what works, and there are alot of people here giving you grief and arguing with you when in fact they have been waiting around a year or two trading "unconditional love" for crumbs of attention as their spouses are still cheating on them sometimes with a second or third partner.
Share with these folks what works!
I agree with Steve
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
