What to do when H doesn't contact?

[dday101798]

Ohhhh, it's the other way around with no contact.

No contact allows you the ability to come to the rationale and uphold to yourself, "huh, this is the way H wants it, than that is what he'll get" and in time that thinking will not allow him to push any buttons any more because he doesn't DESERVE that from you.

Ponder this, why in the world would you let someone you don't associate with get to you?

I'm not quite sure I understand your question about the children?

What I can say is, he pullsup and beeps the horn, walk you child out on the porch and give her a huge hug each and every time. Not only will it make you feel better, and your child feel better, but as with my (x)W, give a dose of reality that you ARE that childs parent too, and they are 50% you, and 50% him.