Originally Posted By: cutterbug
Perhaps she is trying to create communication with you. Build a friendship with you two.

Nothing wrong with that.


No there is nothing wrong with that. It would be nice, to be honest, for her to keep being a part of D's life. D has lost enough recently.

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Its a hard thing for a woman to look at her daughter fail. Repeat the same mistakes.


The texts between W and MIL before she left were nasty about me. MIL was quite nasty about me as was W.

I find it hard to now accept that she has turned into this person who wants to keep contact. However, maybe she has realised that the lies that W has told her were in fact lies. MIL and W were very VERY close (MIL admitted this just prior to W leaving) and she knew nothing about the A or OM.

I told MIL about the OM (mentioning him by name) before W even left here. MIL told me that I was reading too much into it ... then OM moves in ... hmmmmmm.

Last edited by P17; 01/08/10 05:32 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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