Have you actually taken the time to read any threads on here where children were involved. The pitching of fits, the "mommy and daddy are so sad so lets include them" tactics young children use. Do I think kids sit up at night thinking of ways to lie to get their parents back together? No, I do no. But most kids want more than anything to have their family in tact and when it falls apart they will do anything to try and "fix it".
Prayer can be a very spiritual experience so what exactly is so wrong with somebody being moved enough to cry during prayer? How is THAT wrong. The emotion one can feel during prayer should not be used against them. I suppose you could ask your H if he feels so deeply moved during prayer that he cries to have him pray alone so it doesn't upset the children. Wouldn't that be more reasonable then just say "welp, he is lying AGAIN"?
I didn't lie to my H about a THING. NOT ONE. He knew my feelings on the matter and he could not have been more cruel and abusive about it. My ONLY choice was to take care of me... and yes, while I don't have cancer I *do* have an incurable disease so I HAD to be positive as I sure as sh*t was NOT losing my kidneys over my H.
