I have asserted a boundry and she is clear that I will enforce it.
This is what I'm challenging. I don't think she is clear at all, because I don't think YOU are being clear, at all.
Remember the issue at hand: transparency. You have asked for it, now she has offered it, and you think, instead of taking her up on it, it will make you look "confident and less needy" if you don't see the need to.
