Originally Posted By: CityGirl
And how do you know your daughter isn't the one lying?

You do know children can be *very* manipulative during a divorce, right?



Wow, just wow. I believe my daughter bc she said it was during the night-time prayers with daddy that he started crying. Of course kids lie, but not about God and prayers. Even they get that lying about that is a big no-no.

I don't want this thread to be about my situation though. That's why I made my own link.

I was wondering if people feel that when they lie about how good they are doing with their partner (who may or may not want to reconcile) adds to the building or demise of the relationship.

Does lying work and if so, why do you think it did. Or if it didn't, do you wish you were more honest?