You mean, like do you get some sort of "credit" for being peaceful and supplicating, so that later, they'll take you seriously?
Puppy [/quote]
I see your point. But I am not looking for credit from her. She knows that. Peace at any price will not work. I have learned the lesson of Munich. I have asserted a boundry and she is clear that I will enforce it.
She has gone through the worst of the withdrawal phase. She was aweful over Christmas, filed with venom and rage toward me. Now, she is a bit less foggy and showing interest in me and our marriage.
