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Betrayal + unrepentanting = resentment


You know that she won't repent until the A is over though so that equation isn't relevant just now.

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Honesty + repenting + Transparent + owning your own [censored] = forgiveness


Once the A is over again.

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resentment /(resentment * time) = acceptance
Which one wins?


At the moment only the last one is valid because the A is ongoing.

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Forgiveness or acceptance


IMO, you can't have forgiveness until you have acceptance. You can't forgive something you can't accept ...

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Well lucky we can forgive ourselves.


We've had a lot of time and soul searching though. They haven't.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"