W support group that I know of consist of her "clik" of 7 divorced, in the process of divorce and divorced/remarried GF as well as co workers 15 yrs her junior...

I had the opportunity to sit in on a "b#tch session" once with the D crowd and it wasn't pretty,,, they were worse than man in my opinion, very catty... so I have a sense of her advice sources... I could go on about the total disfunctionallity of the group, but one of the EX H that I am friends with put it best, "they're all f'd up and all about themselves as their group sees them"

DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09