feel like giving up - talk to me!

[luvless]

Luv, I know you probably better than the rest of the people on this thread. So I'm telling you... I know you can do this... use that mule-headedness of yours for good. Change that mindset from one of beaten down negativity to a more positive one. This will become easier once you make up your mind on EXACTLY what it is you want, draw up your plan on what you're going to do to get it and then WORK THE PLAN.

I KNOW YOU CAN DO THIS!

Reminder: Three things. [/quote]

I'm just glad you still have faith in me G. I know I have to turn the negative into positive - for ME. I think I'm done sulking it's time to stand up. I miss my old H but if this is the new him I don't want anything to do with him.

I am going to be consistently positive and cordial while holding my respect boundaries.

I'm avoiding anger and resentment like the plague.