Healing my Heart part 8

[fightingirish]

NC~ I know what you mean about staying out of it with his father, normally I would, but not in this case like you said because its a family trip.

His father is toxic and to off-set his father's issues he tries to compare them to my mom, who will occassionaly do or say something that effects me and upsets me.. clearly she has her faults as do everyone else, but His father's issues are on a totally different level. Trust me, its not someone you want around your kids.

Case in point, is why my H has SOOO many issues, is because of his upbringing with his father AND Mother. They are both severely broken.

Can you even believe he just called me again... yup... to ask me to come up and meet with the comptroller to explain to us payment procedures (their payment was late)... I said your kidding right?? I said if you would have asked me early this morning I could have but you are 30 minutes away and S7 has to be picked up from school at 1:45 for a dentist appointment 45 minutes away... he says Oh I didn't know... when mind you I told him last night twice that he was going to get his baby tooth pulled...WTF??

He said fine then I'll get the check myself... (well ya that would be a good idea, considering he's at the job site and its a 2 second walk to the office to get the check!!!?!?!?)

Has no problem asking me for things.. this is what I mean... no matter what he dishes out to me..

then starts in again by telling me that he's sick of me blah blah blah.... Starts in about my mother .... I said me and mother's issues are trivial compared to you last summer almost losing your sight because you father couldn't be bothered listening to the dr. to help you out, then he tried to blame you.. if that is possible??? So don't try to compare them.

He said some more choice words and hung up on me..

lovely...

Im not answering the phone anymore today.. my nerves are shot.