Originally Posted By: DDogs
I'll read more from this board to get ideas, but from what I've been reading so far my best option seems to favor LRT and drop the f'n rope....


Made me laugh, though I know you didn't mean that to be funny.

Originally Posted By: DDogs
I was planning on not facillitating the D, make her do all of the work, let her own the moment...


If she's the one who wants it, let her do it. You just sit back and relax.

Originally Posted By: DDogs
Forgot to add when on mc with the w. She said that my stance on moving back in gave her the strength to go file for d. So this is w mindset. I think she was just trying to have an excuse or justify her actions by making it appera that it was me that caused this. Thoughts. Suggestions?


You already know this is BS. You do not MAKE HER anything. You moved back in wanting to save your M, are doing MC, have suggested Retrov. You are not the cause of her doing anything. Don't believe the hype, as they say.