You escalated this situation by moving back in & getting back in her face.
She chose to escalate by filing for D. To give you an idea for a timeline if you are 2nd guessing whether she really did or not, ....Our D paperwork was filed December 21.. he still has not received it.
Seems like you are both into "one-ups manship".
Ever see the movie Wargames?
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.