Now is not the time to attack. If she wants back in, well, isn't that what you came here for? I know that I was willing to forgive my STBXW at one point and move on with our M. My sitch is different from yours.

I would think it is worth it? For sure you could both benefit with counseling. Look into Retrouvaille. I believe that if there is ANYTHING worth trying that the S will..it's that. Good luck.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;