Any tips to deal with Jealousy on my part

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Yes it is unusual. But to be on the phone for hours with "anybody" for my wife is normal. She has always been known for marathon phone conversations.

I want to confront her about it but if I do she will only push me further away. All confrontations with her that I initiated have so far only backfired on me.

There are two problems with me confronting her.

1)We are separating and then divorcing soon and she is already in the mindset that we are done. She doesnt see me as a husband any more.

2)If I do confront her about it she will know I was listening in on her and she will get wise as to how I am doing this (wont go into details).

I want to keep snooping for now to get something deeper before I blow my cover.