I'm wondering if I over-reacted this summer by focusing so much on H wanting us to be a swingers. He kept saying that was a minor issue for him because he said he had other more pressing concerns about our M (meaning me), but for me- it was HUGE, even if it wasn't often.
You didn't overreact because you were never okay with it. It's okay to not want to participate in something that you don't like. Totally normal to be able to have your own opinion, likes and dislikes.
Originally Posted By: SpyBunny
Honestly, now I don't know why I thought it was so important, because looking back, I'm thinking that maybe it could have waited because I'm not upset about anything, or mad, or whatever- at H or the guy who got out of hand, I don't feel anything. So it must have not been a big deal
Go back and re-read your posts. You were very upset. Feelings ebb and flow. And in that moment you felt a dire need to talk to someone. There is nothing wrong with that. What you feel today may not be what you feel tomorrow and vice versa.
I, like you, cried way more when I was still living at home than I do now. It still happens, just not nearly as often.
