You are dealing with alot. When it rains, it pours. I'm sorry it's all going on at once.
I don't believe I've ever had a social director...and I'm sure not one by nature. I'm an introvert and tend to have fun on my own, but I have been very diligent about getting out with others and it has helped so much.
Even my solo things aren't really solo I guess b/c my dog is usually with me.
Like Jack, I like to kill Zombies for fun and I am perfectly miserable at Rock Band, but what a blast I have <wicked laugh>.