So if someone pretends that they aren't sad or crying, even if you were to get back together, wouldn't you have somewhat sabotaged it by not being truthful?
It's not about acting like you're okay with it (nobody's okay with their marriage destroying right in front of them), it's focusing on yourself & trying to remain positive when you're going through a tough time, because it's hard as hell.
People should feel their feelings. If someone asks me how I feel about my M I say honestly, it sucks. It's not fun.
I very much doubt anyone on this board would tell their spuose, "Everything is rainbows and glitter! This is the greatest moment in my life! Can't wait to see you in court so we can divorce! YAY! Encore!"
