Please Advise!!!! I Could Use Some HELP

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I just want to echo what everybody has said. I'm not in the position of having a WAS come back, but I can relate.

He doesn't trust you at all. He won't for a very very long time. There is no one BIG thing that will turn that around for him. It take slots and lots and lots of little things. Trust. Understanding. Love. Compassion. Space. And acceptance that you have done one of the worst things you can do to a person who gave you their full trust.

I know you understand all of that. But it's too easy to try and push the gas pedal down and shoot off down the road. Resist it. Be patient. I think he will come around - moving with you is a huge step.

There are far too many WAS's here who don't come back. Don't screw this up. Please.