It's typical WAS script. I was thinking about reconciling/working on the M/holding off on D, but then you moved back in/looked at me funny/held me accountable.

Script.

Your W's sudden filing smacks of retaliation. She had the power, and then when you moved back in, she lost it. She's trying to regain the upper hand. You now have the unique opportunity to treat her filing as if it bores you. Agree with her...fighting gives her the feeling of power and control again. She will experience another crisis when you don't react...and then she will have to really think about whether she wants this D or not.

Hang in there!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!