Kemper,

I'm sorry to see you here, where I am too. I couldn't agree more with this statement:

While I do love my W I will not stay in a toxic relationship any longer.

This is exactly where I am at!!! It's a tough place to be. But I realize it's what needs to happen. It tough because my H is extremely depressed. Not being able to go to work, get out of bed, constantly saying he hates his life doesn't see it getting better anytime soon, he is drinking again (been through treatment twice already) turns 30 on Thursday. So young to be so troubled - sad. But this is very hard. I'm almost done with child support paperwork and will be filing that soon.

I'm with you.....trying to stay healthy mentally and being there for your children. I only have one, he's 2.5 so he asks plenty of hard questions even at that young age.

I"m here for you Kemper at anytime. Nikblondiew@yahoo.com
I understand what you're going through......


Me: 31
H: 30
Son 2.5

Minnesota