I wish I lived in a "fault" state. It is VERY frustrating to live in a "no fault" state. Funny, I live in Kansas where they want to teach creationism in the schools but divorce is a piece of cake. No fault. Everything is divided 50%-50%. There is not a lot of wiggle room. They actually encourage joint custody. It is so funny how different states can have different 'takes' on this. I'd almost like to litigate the "no fault" position. It seems that if you have kids, you shouldn't walk away "without fault" when you decide to jump into bed with someone because you can't control your lust.

Who is the "Harley" who researched affairs in happily married couples? Do you have his first name? Sounds interesting...