But come on--filing for D means waving the white flag and giving up. No mal intent for those BSs that choose this but GIVING UP/SURRENDERING is the same to me as DROPPING THE ROPE.
I guess it is surrendering. I see it as seeing the writing on the wall and realizing that WAH has broken the M to a point of no return. I don't want to wait for someone that doesn't care how much he disrespects me and shares himself with another person. Sorry, not trying to be a wet blanket. You are so optimistic newmama and your posts motivate me, but I don't have your patience. You are a saint.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10