Luv,
I'm going to chime in here with one thing..

Is it possible your perceptions of what he is feeling & thinking are wrong?

If you can answer "yes".. (sort of the beyond the shadow of a doubt thing)...

I hope you can use that to find the positive & reframe it.

If you want an example, I can give you one from when i was where I hear you being at.

Hugs & peace
Bridge

Divorced 03/2010
Mom to two amazing kids

Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.

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