H says something you kick off, he then trys to validate himself by being mean and spiteful, so youre mean and spiteful back and then huge bunfight happens! Am I correct dunno you will have to say!
Today
H says something, you try really hard not to kick off, but he is so used to doing the mean and spiteful bit he tries even harder till he is beyond mean and spiteful and you let rip?
New Day
H says something.. you ignore him, he starts doing mean and spiteful, you still ignore him, he gets even more mean and spiteful (spoilt brat alert, dont forget to duck the toys!) You say you understand he is frustrated but you are not going to take him seriously until he stops being a brat and if you have to pack up S as well go out from the house and leave him to stew.
He obviously has a bee in his bonnet about sharing some of the tough stuff with you, so I know this is going to be horrid but perhaps you should ask him to write you a letter with the things he wants to tell you in it, so you can read it away from him, so he doesnt have to handle any kick off;s Ok it might be real heartbreaking stuff coming up but at least you can handle it on your own.. Ok I wont bank on it but Id hedge my bets there isnt someone else but that doesnt mean he is thinking about it..
Its strange he is still going to MC I dont think he is entirely done and dusted just hasnt a clue where to start sorting himself out let alone his M
Let me know your take on my queries
Take Care
Rabbit
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