Separated--Does Not Admit to OW

[saffie]

For everyone it is different. I think it took a good year or more......and then I would suddenly find I was thinking it all over again and getting angry inside.

At the moment you just need to take things slowly and keep them calm. The signs you post all look good. Just remember though not to fall back into the bad habits that caused the M breakdown in the first place.

I found that it took ages for some things about the A to come out of my H. As I have posted on other threads before, it was about a year after the A finished, that out of the blue one day, my H actually apologised 'properly'. With that I mean it came out of the blue and was totally heartfelt; I could feel he meant what he was saying; that he wasn't just saying what he thought he ought to be saying.