Beware of negative thinking! You can talk yourself into a crisis. Hey, she wanted to talk. that's good. So, she didn't agree with you on everything. People don't always agree. When you are there, you can talk some more and find out all the ins and outs of why she doesn't want to move. I don't understand the part about her schedule. Three day weekends sound good to me. How much time would she normally have off?
Have you ever heard of a self-fulfilling prophecy? That's when you believe something will happen. You act as if that thing will happen, and lo and behold, it happens! Divorce can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. if you are depressed because you think your relationship is faltering, then that makes the relationship worse, and from there things can continue to get worse until they lead to the inevitable conclusion.
That's why Michele W. Davis says you should "act as if". Act as if everything is good. You are happy. Life is good. Because positive things happen to people who think positively. Want her to be more loving? Act as if you are in a very loving relationship, your positive energy can bring forth good things.
