Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Just my luck...the tough day for the W, ended up not so tough because the big stressful event was cancelled...so I didn't pull away. W came home, missed the kids again, and promptly went into the basement. That is her quiet, get away place. Doesn't bother me as much as it used too now that I understand things better, but it always makes me wonder about her contacting the OM. Guess I need to let that one go too.
Will see how things go when she comes back up for bed...