one more thing- letting the rope go is complete waste of time to BSs unless we really are ready to file for D. and good for those almighty transcendental (is that a word?) BSs who do that without regrets. But come on--filing for D means waving the white flag and giving up. No mal intent for those BSs that choose this but GIVING UP/SURRENDERING is the same to me as DROPPING THE ROPE. No thank you yet.

here is the latest schedule:
Sat: WH has son 7-2
Sun: WH comes 11-4 (I work out.go to store)
Mon: WH 5:30-8 (I leave for pilates 5:45-7:45)
Tues: WH: 5:30-8 (I work out5:45-6:45/cook6:45-7:15/clean 7:45-8)
Wed: WH: 7:30-3:30 (I work out, go see movie, clean 6/8 hours)
Thurs: WH: 5:30-9:30ish (I leave 5:30-9:30)
Fri: WH doesn't come over (but starting 1/29 will take S overnight at 5:30-2 Saturday)


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004