one more thing- letting the rope go is complete waste of time to BSs unless we really are ready to file for D. and good for those almighty transcendental (is that a word?) BSs who do that without regrets. But come on--filing for D means waving the white flag and giving up. No mal intent for those BSs that choose this but GIVING UP/SURRENDERING is the same to me as DROPPING THE ROPE. No thank you yet.
here is the latest schedule: Sat: WH has son 7-2 Sun: WH comes 11-4 (I work out.go to store) Mon: WH 5:30-8 (I leave for pilates 5:45-7:45) Tues: WH: 5:30-8 (I work out5:45-6:45/cook6:45-7:15/clean 7:45-8) Wed: WH: 7:30-3:30 (I work out, go see movie, clean 6/8 hours) Thurs: WH: 5:30-9:30ish (I leave 5:30-9:30) Fri: WH doesn't come over (but starting 1/29 will take S overnight at 5:30-2 Saturday)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004