Boundaries are a good thing and I am working on trying to form some. It has taken me awhile to get to this point but here I am . . . I am trying to sort out the best way to do this in the midst of the MLC. One thing I don't let him do anymore is project onto me. Fortunately that almost never happens these days. Actually, hasn't for awhile.
I started reading the book Boundaries. Didn't get very far, I just really don't have the time, but so far so good!
The thing is, so much has improved around here that life is easier than it has been for a very long time.