exh: Going to swing by right now to see baby before I have to pick up d15. Me: We are not home right now, but will head that way. Be there in 10 minutes. Exh: NEVERMIND! Me: Well, if you want to come by please give me some notice.
this was good...but I think your still catering to him.
how about "exh: Going to swing by right now to see baby before I have to pick up d15. Me: Not home yet, but she's looking forward to seeing you at 10am! Exh: NEVERMIND! Me: no reason to be angry, if you need to change your visit time, you will need to give me more notice.
when you immediately say, we're heading that way, be there in 10 minutes...I sense that fear in you. then your response from his txt yelling seems defensive. just MHO.
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Exh: How is baby? Me: Good. Exh: What is with the attitude lately? Me: No attitude. I am the happiest I have been in a long time! Exh: Who are you seeing? You can tell me?
Done texting. Funny how me putting some distance between us makes him think I am dating.
haven't finished the last 3 pages yet..but I have a feeling I'm in for a lot of upset exh stuff. I'm glad you sent the txt about divorce. that was good. he needed to hear something.
but, you know why I think he thinks your dating? because he thinks in order to be happy, he has to be with someone. that's why he's always with a woman. and if your happy, you must be with someone. plus, he's jealous. IMHO.
okay, gonna try to read some more..
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
