Trusting... I just logged back on, and here you are!
You have followed my story? Did you fall asleep? Not a lot of movement!!!
I read your thread tonight. We are in the same boat, kind of... Hey, I still have a warm body in my bed! What good that does is beyond me!!!???!!!
Anyways, I wanted you to know that I think you could benefit by what I'm working on in parallel. BOUNDARIES. I've only recently started calling H out on his "comments" or surly mood, when the time arises (not very often anymore, but I'm DONE w/that!). And, we had a parenting hiccup w/my D18 that I had to lay down a boundary about... he's playing along nicely... But, the next one will be harder.
You need some boundaries, too. Coming and going. Nice, communicative, pain in the rear, involved, distant, laughing, grumbling. It's not a way to live.
Come along, my friend, into 2010!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
